Wednesday, 25 January 2012

Where Do You Make Major Decisions





So I've been blog surfing tonight, to random blogs, basically playing Russian Roulette on Google Plus. I came upon this one. It gave me food for thought in a disgusting kind of way. Although it may be common practice in others homes, but not in mine and I may be the odd one out. So I thought I would put it out there in the blogosphere!
The lady was telling a story about how after much contemplation, the financial decision that they had come to that changed their lives. I didn't read past the first paragraph because she opened with when she was in the bath and her husband on the toilet.
Now  I  personally, since I can remember, do not share my bathroom experiences with anyone. Ever. I can't even bear to have a toilet door open during such functions, this applies to being home on my own as well. So the thought of having major life changing discussions with Stretch during these times does not sit well in fact freaks me out a little. Am I the prude?
I would say most of our major discussions, even meaningful conversations occur at bedtime. It's when we are both not preoccupied with other things or being interrupted constantly by the little ones.
So blogging darlings, where do you have your important discussions with your partner?

8 comments :

  1. I thought this was going to be about where do think about blogging, and I always do in the shower.  I've asked that on my blog before too, and other bloggers said the same thing!  I think it's because it's the only place where I'm ever alone.  As for conversations with hubby, we tend to have them when we're driving in the car, or sitting together in Miss A's room while she plays. x

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  2. I think of blogs and sewing ideas when I am sleeping, I wake up with ideas and jot them down, go back to sleep and awake and go ohhh look at that. It's harder as they get older to have private conversations as they start to understand more and more words about what your saying, especially when they learn to spell, we use to spell words out in front of Miss T when she was younger until one day she translated and we were ohhhhh well that's the end of that then :) Good Times xx

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  3. I think of ideas when I am sleeping, jot them down and go back to sleep lol. Wake up the next day and go ohhh look at that. We use to talk about things up until Miss T could spell and translated what we were saying, that put and end to that. Good Times :) xx 

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  4. Definitely NOT in the bathroom. I won't even answer if someone talks to me through the door, I would definitely not feel comfortable talking to someone in the same room. 

    We talk a lot in the kitchen, mostly at night while we are preparing dinner but sometimes in the mornings over brekky.

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  5. Definitely NOT in the bathroom. I won't even answer if someone talks to me through the door, I would definitely not feel comfortable talking to someone in the same room. 

    We talk a lot in the kitchen, mostly at night while we are preparing dinner but sometimes in the mornings over brekky.

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  6. Mummy Issues Part 226 January 2012 at 22:42

    It feels like I need to make an appointment with Mr J to have a discussion with him as we are constantly interrupted.
    PS I wee in front of my partner, but well the other, is private.

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  7. Mummy Issues Part 226 January 2012 at 22:43

    It feels like I need to make an appointment with Mr J to have a discussion with him as we are constantly interrupted.
    PS I wee in front of my partner, but well the other, is private.

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  8. Hi Beth, I do all my best thinking in the shower, but most of our discussions are in the car. Preferably when Miss B is elsewhere, otherwise we don't get a word in!

    Lisa   xx

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